Finding Depth Without Dogma

Last month, I shared some thoughts on the wide range of tools (https://just-breathe.ghost.io/its-not-the-tool-its-the-inner-connection/) we use for healing, self-reflection, and growth, and how the real change comes from the connection they create, not the tool itself.
The conversation that followed got me thinking even more about choice, authority, and what it means to trust your own way forward.
So here’s a follow-up, not a sequel, but a continuation of that thread.

It’s funny how many tools we have at our fingertips these days. You’re feeling anxious? Take a breath. Feeling stuck? Pull a card. Need answers? Look to the stars, or your journal, or maybe a guided meditation on your phone. There’s a tool for everything. And that’s not a bad thing.

I’ve played with a lot of them, some out of curiosity, some out of necessity. Some stuck, some didn’t. But what I’ve learned is this: the tool itself isn’t what changes us. It’s the connection it helps us make with ourselves.

Some tools are quiet and simple. Things like meditation, breathwork, walking in the woods, guided visualizations, or movement practices like yoga, qigong, and tai chi. They help bring you back into your body, into the moment, into a sense of presence that doesn’t always come naturally.

Other tools are more reflective. Not because they hold some external truth, but because they invite us to look inside. Journaling, working with dreams, pulling tarot or oracle cards, reading your birth chart, studying the Enneagram or personality types like Myers-Briggs or the Big Five. They don’t tell you who you are, but they give you language for what you’re already sensing.

Then there are tools that shake things loose. That shift how we feel, or how we see the world. Psychedelics and plant medicine are being explored in therapeutic settings. Reiki and energy healing are being offered in hospitals. Sound baths, rhythmic movement, ecstatic dance, float tanks. All of them offer something nonverbal, something that bypasses the thinking mind.

Some of these tools are supported by research. Meditation, breathwork, and psychedelics have a growing base of peer-reviewed studies. They are showing up in hospitals, mental health programs, and stress recovery clinics. Others, like tarot and astrology, don’t have clear scientific mechanisms. But people still use them because they work. Maybe not in a lab, but in real life. That matters too.

Reiki is interesting. It doesn’t come with scientific explanation, but places like Cleveland Clinic and Mayo Clinic offer it anyway. Why? Because people feel better. Less pain. Less anxiety. More peace. No one really knows how it works, but maybe that’s the point. Not everything that heals can be measured.

There’s also a tension I’ve noticed over the years. A kind of turf war between belief systems. On one side you have organized religion. On the other, the often misunderstood world of the occult. Both claim a connection to something greater. Both rely on faith, practice, and mystery. And both are quick to judge anything that doesn’t fit their version of the truth.

It might be helpful if I clarify a few terms. Religion refers to structured traditions like Christianity, Judaism, Islam, or Buddhism. The occult, from the Latin "occultus", simply means hidden. It includes symbolic or esoteric systems like astrology, tarot, alchemy, or energy work...holistic if you will. It is not a cult. It is not evil. It is just another lens, another language for the unseen.

Unfortunately, popular culture has done a number on how we see these things. The occult gets painted as dangerous or dark, full of rituals and shadows. Religion often gets framed as rigid or exclusive. And so both sides end up rejecting the other. But the irony is, both rely on belief more than proof. And both offer meaning, ritual, and connection to something bigger than the self.

Here’s a true story. A few years ago, I facilitated a series of wellness classes at a local church. We did some gentle yoga, some breathwork, and a short meditation. The group was warm, engaged, and open. The leadership even said they wanted to offer it again. But it never happened.

Later, the organizers told me that some congregants had expressed outrage. They believed what we were doing was sinful and evil. There was no sermon. No ideology. No spiritual agenda. Just people breathing, stretching, and letting go of stress. But fear of the unfamiliar drowned out the actual experience. It was a missed opportunity. One of many.

And if all of this still feels a little too out there, that’s okay too. You don’t need incense or moonlight or mantras to reconnect with yourself. Some of the most powerful tools for inner work are completely secular. CBT worksheets. Goal tracking. Values clarification. Meditation apps. Journaling prompts. Coaching. Therapy. A good conversation with a trusted friend.

Inner work doesn’t have to be mystical to be meaningful. Whether it’s a psychedelic journey, a ten-minute breath session, a walk in the woods, or a note scribbled in the middle of the night, what matters isn’t the method. It’s the moment of connection. The pause. The return.

The best tools help you remember what you already know. So approach everything with a healthy dose of skepticism. But if you find something that helps you find yourself, then by all means, embrace it.

And in the meantime...JUST BREATHE!

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Wellness expands when we pass it on, a moment of stillness, a shift in perspective, a reminder to pause. I can’t tell you how many times someone has reached out to say, “Your message came through just when I needed it.” This is why we share. You never know whose day, or mindset, you might help shift with a single post or message.

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